Thursday, 30 March 2017


Ambiverts are totally different from the two dominant classes (extrovert and introvert) of people in the world, although they are more inclined towards the introverts. These people have some unique qualities which make them different from other.
I am an ambivert so I can better describe who they are. I am going to mention some of those qualities here.

1- They are minimalists
    Generally they talk less. Whenever it's necessary they put their opinion otherwise remain silent most of the time. They talk very less with strangers and less with acquaintance and slightly more than sufficient with friends.
2- They are good listeners
    They have enough patience to listen someone, although they try to avoid unnecessary speech. They don't interrupt in between while listening someone and keep their views in the end.
3- They take their own time to make friends
    Making friends in the first meeting is the most difficult task for them. They take time to understand someone and if that person fit to them, then extend their hands for friendship.
4- They have a small friend circle
    They limit their friend list to certain number. But those friends are permanent and everything to them.
5- They love being alone
    They love to be alone maximum time and they enjoy it. Sometimes people misinterpret them as they are not social. Rather they are selectively social.
6- They are very creative
    As they are good listeners and love to be alone, they engage their time in creative works.
7- They are emotional
    They are little bit emotional and don't hesitate to show it.
8- They are serious
    They are serious about their life, future and relationships.
9- They are good decision maker
    As they take their own time for everything so take enough time for making decisions also. Don't like to take instant decision.
10- They have good presence of mind
    Certainly they have trained their mind to work suddenly at any point of time, if needed.
11- They don't show off
      They don't show off their achievements and don't like them who does it.
12- They are proactive
      They never react suddenly to anything. Whatever it may be like any success or failure their reactions are equal. They remain calm in every situation.
14- They are good analyser
      They analyse matters very well. They go for both pros and cons. They keep the conclusion(what it could be ) in their mind.
15- They are optimists
      They are always positive. They think positively but also keep the opinions of the pessimists in their mind.
16- They are good observers
      They observe everything to a greater deep. When they are alone or feel alone in crowd it's their favourite hobby.
17- They are good advisers
      They understand both the people and their situations very well. So they give good advice. Most important is they don't give any free advice to anybody.
18-  They are kind hearted
      They are very kind to everyone not only to human but also to animals and trees. They feel them, read their expressions and behave accordingly.
19- They know who they are what they are capable of
     So last but not the least they know themselves very well so no doubt they are very clever and intelligent.

So these are some qualities they have. But these people are always undermined as they aren't sufficiently expressive. Today's world are the world of extroverts. They dominate in every sector,and are well recognised. But introvert and extroverted introvert (ambivert ) are those people who have equal talent but unfortunately don't find equal space.

Monday, 6 March 2017


Sometimes life puts you in to a puzzle. You can't decide what to do at that stage. But that decision takes to you somewhere which you can't expect. So that moment of life is THE MOST important moment.
Considering myself as an example I want to illustrate it in a better way. Now I am a geoscientist in GSI, a central government employee. I am stable in my life at this particular point of time. If I will be satisfied with my job then there is nothing to think about. My job is good,prestigious (class 1 gazzatted ), getting good amount of salary. No question to think about other options. Still I want to fly higher and higher. So some options I am creating for myself are just like, I want to become an IAS officer, want to be a businessman(till now these are two options I have ). I'm sure that I can become any of these two if I want it from my heart. Now confusion enter into life. To be an IAS I have to do a lot of hard work, to be determined etc etc. Yes I can fulfil that also but now in training life, it is practically difficult, why???  Because I want to enjoy my training life, want to make every moment memorable. I just don't want to use those precious moment in gaining knowledge for civil service exam. It was one. Another is I want to  become a businessman. For that I have to take risk in both ways, money and time. My family doesn't support that type of risky investment also. And for this I will, not only have to sacrifice my current job but also one of my aim (to become an IAS ).
now coming to my life style. I love fashion which is a part of my life. If I want to do that, my current financial situation doesn't support that. Secondly my age, friend circle, enthu is fading away. So if I am waiting for my better financial condition I am loosing my present which is meant to be enjoyed . If I am trying to live a glamorous life I am doing an unfair to my family which needs me at this moment.
So to make my life in such a way to get everything I have dreamed of is practically difficult. Something I have to sacrifice. But which one I want to, is a big question. I am in a big puzzle !!! I don't even know life will take me where....(a big pause) but I hope at that point of my life I would not have any regret for my past. I would be happily reading this blog with a mild smile.